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‘You’s on MySpace?’

Working in the social media space, I feel like I sometimes interpret situations differently than my peers. To prove this point, I’d like to share a little MySpace anecdote.

I was walking around downtown near Civic Center a couple of weekends ago, and a young guy, I’d say he was about 17 years old, came up to me and started walking alongside me. He asked me three questions:

1. ‘What’s up with you?’

2. ‘What’s your name?’

3. ‘You’s on MySpace?’

When he delivered the third question, I got the giggles and starting thinking about what a cultural impact social networks are having on young people and mused over how I wanted to incorporate this conversation into a blog post.

He was obviously trying to figure out a way to connect with me, and contact through a social network is a great way to check someone out. You can read their profile, view photos and discern their likes and interests. I found it interesting that he didn’t ask me for my phone number, which is a much more direct point of connection, whereas MySpace provides a softer connection.

I then realized that he was still waiiting for me to answer him.

I smiled and told him I wasn’t on MySpace, and he seemed to take the hint that I wasn’t interested in him. I carried on walking and marveled at the cultural impact the Web is having on the way people communicate with one another.

Friend Request

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Living in San Francisco, I find myself with geeks for friends. They are developers and web designers, PR and marketers in the web 2.0 space. We all work on the 2nd Street corridor or in and around South Park. We grab beers after work, ride bikes on the weekend and do business with one another during the week.

We are all connected through social networks, and with a quick ping from the office, I am navigated to the appropriate person for evaluation. There was no email required to an anonymous info@company.com, nor did I have to call and ask to be put through to the marketing department. With the validation of my friend, there was very little pretense, and I quickly found the results I was after. I am amazed.

As the web becomes social, business has begun to transcend into my personal life. I am not only connected to my friends, but to my professional peers as well.

That’s all well and good – but I can’t help but wonder – why do I want to connect with these people? Isn’t email and telephony enough? Why do I want to put a face to the email signature and to the voice on the phone? Is business becoming more personal because the work force is evolving, or because technology is evolving?

I asked my boss what she thought about this shift. The reason she gave for the desire to connect in more personal ways is painfully simple: Because We Can.